While a custody exchange day may be considered a day like any other, you and your co-parent need to be on the same page about crucial factors related to it. This can help prevent misunderstandings once your custody schedule becomes effective.
Here are three matters to discuss:
Location
Agree on the location where the exchange will take place. If you and your co-parent are comfortable picking up and dropping off your child at each other’s houses, this can be a good option. However, if that’s not the case, a public spot can work well. You can choose a mall, park or restaurant.
Consider selecting a location that is nearly the midpoint between your houses. It can also be beneficial to pick a spot with child-friendly amenities so your child can be occupied when waiting for the other parent.
If your custody schedule includes exchanges on school days, a transition can be made at the school. One parent drops off the child, while the other picks them up. Ensure your child’s school is aware of this to facilitate smooth transitions.
Time
It’s vital to agree on a specific time for the exchange. This allows the parent with the child to start preparing them early, avoiding last-minute rushes. It can also help you and the other parent to plan the day’s activities more effectively. Additionally, it can spare your child from any confusion, as they know when they will be leaving.
Changes
Sometimes, one of you might need to change the custody exchange. For example, if one of you has an important work event to attend. Therefore, it’s essential to discuss changes beforehand. Agree on how one can request a reschedule and how soon they need to do so.
Discussing custody exchange days can help you have smooth transitions. Learn more about this for successful co-parenting.